You know what infertility shame is. Suffering in silence. Keeping your head down. Not telling other people in your life about the fertility struggles you are having because you are embarrassed. Feeling that there is something wrong with you. Learning through others’ stupid comments that it’s not worth trying to talk about it. Infertility shame tells you that you are a failure because getting and staying pregnant are not happening in the way that you were promised. That you are different.